Thanks for the advice everyone. I think she has a pretty good understanding of what is going to happen now. (as good as it's going to get for a 4 year old anyway) I've got 4 more weeks at the house and I'll be in San Diego. I can not wait! I love my family and it's not going to be easy to leave, but God made some men to sit at home behind and desk and some of us are destined to do bigger things. I'm ready to find out if I'm one of the chosen.