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bgsuwoody
07-18-07, 11:05 PM
Today is July 19, 2007; two years after the tragic death of Poolee Matthew Windham just a week before he was to ship off to Parris Island. Though I did not know Matthew, nor ever spoke to him, I have come to learn that his presence on this site and his impact on others was overwhelming and feel it is necessary to honor his life and his contributions to others.

As one of my mentors and Matthew’s alike, SSgt. Jim Nelson once said “I believe that a Marine, Poolee or man is not dead until they are forgotten and that’s not going to happen on my watch.” In that tradition, I feel it is my duty to help remember Matthew and provide a forum for others to remember him as well.

For those who knew him, his memory is your gift and should be cherished forever. For those who never had the opportunity or the privilege to meet or speak to Matthew, we must remember the spirit of this young man and how he lived his life. His presence not only changed the lives of so many, but helped them achieve their goals to become better people and better Marines.

Nicollo Machiavelli once said, “…a prudent man should always follow in the path trodden by great men and imitate those who are most excellent, so that if he does not attain to their greatness, at any rate he will get some tinge of it.” It is our responsibility as Poolees, and the hopeful future of the Marine Corps, to walk in the footsteps of those like Matthew Windham and maintain this tradition of hard-charging, life changing individuals whether it be Marine or Poolee alike. May we always live up to the Marine Corps spirit shown in Matthew and never forget the impact that one person can have on the world and that we should always attempt to make that impact no matter the cost.

My prayers go out to Matt’s family and friends on this somber day and hope that in some small way remembering his life and his spirit can soothe your pain. He will never be forgotten.

Semper Fidelis Matthew, you were a true Marine. May you continue to guard the streets of heaven, flanked by St. Michael, until each one of us are given the opportunity to join you by your side.

I dedicate this prayer (written by myself) in Matthew’s honor as I have dedicated it to the fallen before.



Blessed are you Lord, God of our Fathers. We do well to join all creation in heaven and on Earth in praising you. You made man in your own image and set him over all creation. Once, you chose a people and gave them a destiny, and when you brought them out of bondage to freedom they carried with them the promise that all men would be blessed and all men could be free

Your pledge to us of old has come to pass in every generation that has enjoyed this beautiful land. You have given us a new freedom in your spirit. It happened to our fathers who came to this land as if out of the desert with a place of promise and hope

It happens still in our time as you lead all men to the blessed vision of peace. And so with hearts full of love and gratitude we honor those who shed their blood so that we may never know the bondage of oppression nor live in the fear of tyrants.

As we honor those who have paid the ultimate price of freedom may we never forget that our debt to them is vigilance eternal.

Grant to them the everlasting peace of your kingdom and to us the sincerity of faith and dedication of purpose.

To you be all glory, honor, and praise...now and forever.

Amen.




Please use this thread to honor and remember the life, memory, and spirit, of Matthew Windham. Matthew shall not be forgotten on our watch.

More information about Matthew Windham (semperfidelis20) can be found at these links:
http://www.leatherneck.com/forums/showthread.php?t=21267 (http://www.leatherneck.com/forums/showthread.php?t=21267)
http://www.leatherneck.com/forums/showthread.php?t=32182 (http://www.leatherneck.com/forums/showthread.php?t=32182)
http://www.leatherneck.com/forums/showthread.php?t=27764 (http://www.leatherneck.com/forums/showthread.php?t=27764)
http://www.leatherneck.com/forums/showthread.php?t=25633 (http://www.leatherneck.com/forums/showthread.php?t=25633)

Justin493
07-18-07, 11:44 PM
Guarding the streets of heaven amongst his brothers. :usmc:

USMC90
07-18-07, 11:45 PM
One big Amen bgsuwoody. Great post as always.

Rest in forever peace Matthew.

TrevelyanInc
07-19-07, 12:56 AM
Rest in peace, Matthew, I'll remember you in boot camp and it'll help me get through.

Kurby494
07-19-07, 12:58 AM
I wasn't around for his time but I wish I had been. Sounds like a great guy. I can only wish when my time comes that I can have even a sliver of the effect on even 1 person as he's obviously had on members of this forum. God bless him.

Covey_Rider
07-19-07, 06:50 AM
Good on you for this post. I know myself and many other poolees and Marines who knew Matt all appreciate it. Matt was a good motivated poolee and he encouraged and motivated so many young poolees. He was the man who nicknamed me "word boy," it was a nickname that was given to me well over two years ago and it still sticks to me to this day. R.I.P. Matt.

Semper Fi brother...

Phantom Blooper
07-19-07, 07:43 AM
RIP Matt! Semper Fi! :usmc: :flag: :evilgrin:

jetdoc
07-19-07, 09:04 AM
Rest in peace.

jinelson
07-20-07, 09:08 AM
Outstanding post Mike thank you. Matt has helped many make it when they thought that they could not continue at MCRD by just remembering him. Drill Instructor Gunny Walker made mention that when he had several recruits want to quit he told them Matts story and they all went back to the platoon trained and graduated. I have made your post the Todays Moto post it rates a place there as it is pure Moto.

Jim

Covey_Rider
03-20-08, 07:53 AM
Semper Fi Matt.

jinelson
03-20-08, 10:10 AM
Happy Birthday Matt I sure do miss you. This is your 21st and one that would have been celebrated like we spoke of on your 18th. Rest in peace pup and please give Chesty my regards. Until we meet up again Semper Fidelis.

Jim

crazymjb
03-20-08, 02:04 PM
I'm sorry I missed him, he sounded like a great poolee, and a great person.

Happy birthday, cheers.

Mike

bgsuwoody
03-20-08, 06:32 PM
Wow this is really wierd, I was just thinking about Matthew just yesterday actually. I was getting my PT on in some "bull in the ring" and was winning rounds and had to face more opponents and I don't know why but I said to myself that Matt would probably love this and he wouldn't give up and I ended up winning the whole thing out of 15 people. I don't know, but sometimes it seems like even if you don't know people that these people are watching over you and place themselves in your mind at the most opportune times and it just so happened to be near his birthday. Its a real wierd coincidence.

Happy Birthday Matt, thank you for your inspiration and for everything you have done for us all. You will be remembered.

bgsuwoody
07-20-08, 02:40 PM
Poolees I would like to bring up this thread again as it is the anniversary of the death of a dedicated poolee on this site. Matthew Windham once again. I wrote this last year as a forum to discuss his life, his impact, and allow everyone to understand what a single person can do to affect another. This also provided a forum for everyone to use for rememberance.

As a Marine, a fellow brother is never forgotten as long as he is remembered in spirit in our hearts. I ask that you take the time to read and understand a little bit about Matthew and read the posts and understand the impact he has had on the lives of individuals such as SSgt. Nelson and Cpl. Stam and myself (though I never met or knew him) not to mention many others.

Use the time you have here poolees to make this a home and make change in others' lives. This is what Matthew was able to do and it is amazing the impact he still has on me. Understand this as an aspect of how Marines remember and share in a time of tragedy and take it as a lesson to how to live your lives.

I hope that Matthew's family is doing well in this time of sorrow, but let us all be reminded that this Marine in ever yaspect of his being is guarding the gates of heaven watching over us all. God Bless and Godspeed Matt and Semper Fidelis brother. You are missed, but will never be forgotten. Not on our watch.

NicholasITALY
07-20-08, 03:06 PM
God Bless Ya. Rest in Peace my future brother.

Semper Fidelis Matt, Semper Fi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

danieljogbn
07-20-08, 03:35 PM
Rest in peace. God bless you

Phantom Blooper
07-21-08, 12:10 AM
RIP Matt! The streets of gold are guarded with Marines! You my friend would have made one helluva Marine!

You were made honorary a few years back with your motivation......so I hope you are pulling your share of the guard.....if nothing else at least keepin' the coffee flowin' to those on watch! Semper-Fi!:flag:

:evilgrin:

SlaveToTheCorps
07-21-08, 08:00 AM
Walter Lippmann once said; “The final test of a leader is that he leaves behind him in other men the conviction to carry on.”

Thank you for continuing to be an inspiration to us now, your Semper Fi Heart & strength has carried on to us; I hope we have made you proud. Keep those streets guarded for us; Matt, we will see you again soon!