Girlfriend

[mcvet57103]

Why you gonna get mad at him? She's the one opening her legs!

Yeah she might be guilty, but he knew she was taken, and that, to me, is disrespecting me. When I caught my first, and second wives screwing around, I beat both their lovers senseless. Then it dawned on me that neither of them, or their lovers, were worth going to jail over. And the second one ended up marrying the sh-tbird (my ex-best friend). She later wrote and apologized and said he was a drunken slob who wouldn't work. Hinted we should get back together. Yeah right. If your lady/woman/wife/girlfriend however you choose to describe her as is unfaithful, hitting them in the purse ($$$$$) is always more painful than anything else. And I'll reiterate, If you have any suspicion what so ever do not marry her.

[sscjoe]

Kim, you are going to wake up all the ole horndogs talking like that!!!

[PaidinBlood]

don't tell him that! it'll just make his head bigger!!! haha... hey PIB

Fear not; I've always got my better half to keep that ego in check. Hell I need all the flattery I can get just to stay afloat....

[SureShot12]

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Originally Posted by SureShot12 Dont worry about it, Jodi will keep an eye on her for ya ! Its only 3months, man...Dont sweat it. I left a girlfriend back home when I shipped out, when I got home- I sent her on her way...I saw plenty of recruits all teary eyed over their girls- made me sick. HOWEVER, our SDI made all recruits that recieved photos of their girls, put said photos up on a tack board, some were HOTT !!

Wanna get the envy of the other recruits get her to send you some sexy poses. And when I was at Boot it was called the Hog Board. One recruit got sexy swimsuit pictures sent to him by his sister, when he wrote her and told her about the Board. We had a freindly competition amoung the Recruits on who could post the sexiest pictures, short of Pornogrophy on the Hog Board.

Hell, they probably dont even allow that in boot anymore. A lot has changed in the 7 years since I was there, apparently.

We had a few pretty wild photos up on that board. I noticed that in the morning, some were in a differnt position then they were last night, on the board..Haha..

If my sister sent me sexy bikini photos, the first thing I would have done when I got home would be punch her right in the throat.

I really think, considering the average age of a male recruit in boot is 19.7yo- 98% of relationships these recruits are in will be over shortly, Corps or not.

So, while you go and better yourself, let Suzie get VD...Once you graduate and get your DS, you'll probably pull more ass then you ever realized.

I "liked" my girl, too....But when I found out she cheated on me, I didnt even care. I was on a journey that the scumbag she screwed wouldnt be able to handle.

I just laughed, and made sure to "think" about this hot female Corpsmen, more often.

When I got home, I put said scumbags head into a metal railing outside a diner and told her to to take a hike.(I have alot of pride, and rarely admit that I was cheated on, but whatever...this board is full of men that I respect).

[jeffsnff89]

Why you gonna get mad at him? She's the one opening her legs!

He's the one that came to MY house seeing the pictures of me and her togather (if she brought him to my house) But I would be mad at her to but what am I supposed to do? I can't hit her even if she deserved it. I would just divorce her and get my money. and split.

[martinj]

Honestly im not sure if this is the section this should be in, but im sorry. Anyway, im currently a poolee, and was wonder if any of you guys had tips on how to make being in the Marine Corp. the easiest on ur relationship. I will be leaving a girlfriend back at home and was just wondering on some tips. Thank you.

Im engaged and I leave for PI in July and im not worried about anything. If you love her and want to be with her and she feels the same way it will work out, like Kawigunny said not all women will do you wrong. So just do what you think, if you have no doubts about her faithfullness then you'll be fine.

[jeffsnff89]

Fear not; I've always got my better half to keep that ego in check. Hell I need all the flattery I can get just to stay afloat....

Man. Tell me about it my girlfriend is the worst at bringing my ego down. I'm not gonna say what she says but alot of it is hurtful. But I love her all the same. She lets me sometimes get that ego booster.

[PaidinBlood]

Man. Tell me about it my girlfriend is the worst at bringing my ego down. I'm not gonna say what she says but alot of it is hurtful. But I love her all the same. She lets me sometimes get that ego booster.

Are you a man or a mouse? Neither: you are a United States Marine!

Don't misinterpret what I say in jest! My wife is a loving reality check but has never done anything but support and encourage me. Hell she is probably too nice and definitely more than I deserve. You can PM me if you want to talk about the specifics but no person (man, woman, or MARINE) should ever take that sh!t from one they "love". You owe yourself, Marine.

[rg2o3]

Sorry, I see none of this advice as funny, or irrelevent. I have four buddies in Boot Camp at Parris Island, and only one has not gotten the dreadful "Dear Jody" letters. All these answers are straight forward. My brothers wife went from him, to ****ing my older brother ( they were room-mates at Lejeune). She told him the day he was shipping to Afghanistan. I have been around the Marine Corps for 12 years (because of my brothers), and I have seen numerous women cheating on their boyfriends/husbands. Hell, at one time Lejeune's wives had some flag that represented when their husbands/boyfriends were deployed. It's reality man. If she doesn't cheat than great. Just because she doesn't cheat on you during Boot Camp, doesn't mean she won't once you get to the fleet and get deployed. Best advice I have seen from a buddy of mine in the fleet he gave to his now wife. "While I'm at boot, f*** who you want. Just don't f***ing tell me about it."

I actually find most of the advice irrelevant because most of these posts are not actually advice at all, just facts and people telling me what is most likely going to happen, and i was just asking for advice to make it easier. But i do like the advice your buddy gave lol, its so true.

[PaidinBlood]

I actually find most of the advice irrelevant because most of these posts are not actually advice at all, just facts and people telling me what is most likely going to happen, and i was just asking for advice to make it easier. But i do like the advice your buddy gave lol, its so true.

HELLO?!

"facts and people telling me what is most likely going to happen"
"advice"

Sound pretty similar to me! I'm fixin to put a jihad on you, buddy! That's up there on my list of peeves-people who don't like advice. TAKE IT, LEAVE IT, or PASS IT ON. Hell now I need a beer. Look what you've made me do!

[jeffsnff89]

I actually find most of the advice irrelevant because most of these posts are not actually advice at all, just facts and people telling me what is most likely going to happen, and i was just asking for advice to make it easier. But i do like the advice your buddy gave lol, its so true.

I say go for it the wrost that happens you get a dear john letter while in boot camp and you pout for a bit then get over it.

[rg2o3]

paidinblood, I agree with pretty much everything you've posted so far... Not all girls are gonna run around on their men while they're away, some girls just aren't like that. However, if this guy had to make a thread about it, it would seem like a red flag to me as well!

Now if I was a girl leaving a guy behind when I went to boot... Well that's a different story entirely...

No, i dont think you quite understand the thread, i was just asking advice to make it the EASIEST on us both. Not that im scared shes gonna cheat on me or break up with me, because if she did i would get over it and move on. Its not the end of the world. I am very young.

[rg2o3]

HELLO?!

"facts and people telling me what is most likely going to happen"
"advice"

Sound pretty similar to me! I'm fixin to put a jihad on you, buddy! That's up there on my list of peeves-people who don't like advice. TAKE IT, LEAVE IT, or PASS IT ON. Hell now I need a beer. Look what you've made me do!

hahaha, advice is something that helps you, not facts.. I already know that there is a high chance that she will cheat on me or break up with me, i was just wonder how to make all of it easier. Thats all.

[PaidinBlood]

Honestly im not sure if this is the section this should be in, but im sorry. Anyway, im currently a poolee, and was wonder if any of you guys had tips on how to make being in the Marine Corp. the easiest on ur relationship. I will be leaving a girlfriend back at home and was just wondering on some tips. Thank you.

Man I am not about to say this again. Don't tell me what I do and don't understand. Think of how many years of experience are on this board. How many 50th anniversaries and 5th wives. Then tell me that we have NO idea what's up.

Look, if you asked me for a bandaid, and I pointed out that you in fact had SUCKING F*ing CHEST WOUND, would you argue with me about the original question?

You only asked about how to make it easier, true, and all these Marines (and some others, but oh well) shared their experiences. Now simmer down and go get us another round -you need to catch up!

[LittleMissStretch]

If your already doubting your girlfriend then you don't really trust her. Which means that you don't have a relationship that will last. Honestly, and this is coming from my three cousins who are Marines...your better off going to Boot single. No worries that way. Unless you are absolutely in love with this girl and are planning to spend the rest of your life with her....just my two cents.

Ew Beer....gross. lol