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thedrifter
06-20-08, 06:30 AM
Mother's letter helps tell Marine's story
By Christy Gutowski | Daily Herald Staff
Published: 6/20/2008 12:06 AM

Dawid Pietrek was a young Polish immigrant who died an American hero.

The 24-year-old DuPage County man was killed Saturday with three other Marines while returning to their base when their Humvee was blown up by a roadside bomb in the worst single attack this year on U.S. or coalition forces in Afghanistan. A fifth Marine was seriously wounded.

Though Pietrek died for a country that was not yet his own, his mother back in his native Police, Poland, said she accepts the tragic loss of her only son because he felt so strongly about his decision to serve.

In an e-mail she penned in Polish to family and friends, including the Daily Herald, his mother asked that his sacrifice not be forgotten.

A rough translation of Dorota Pietrek's note suggests that she understood that fighting a war for another country was Dawid's choice, something he had to do.

Dawid Pietrek came to the U.S. at about 21 on a green card with dreams of going to college and becoming a police officer. A trained medical caregiver, he lived with two Elmhurst families while helping with their elderly family members. He enlisted in June 2007 with the hope of expediting his citizenship.

Dorota also shared undated correspondence she received from Dawid in which he wrote of the threat of roadside bombs and land mines. Pietrek, though, told his mother and younger sister not to worry because "I'm watching over myself."

In July 2005, Dawid Pietrek moved in with Bill and Joanne Rohn and their three children in Elmhurst. The young man took care of Joanne's elderly father until he died in February 2006 at 88.

The couple said Pietrek dreamed of a military career, a college education and becoming a police officer. He also wanted to become a citizen, which they said likely spurred his decision to enlist. They described their houseguest, who quickly became part of their family, as respectful, kind and self-assured. They last saw him around Christmas, when he stopped by their home in full uniform.

Joanne Rohn said she was putting together mementos of Pietrek's time with their family to send to his mother "to give her some sense that it was worth something."

Pietrek worked for another family afterward, also in Elmhurst, and eventually rented an apartment for a short time in Bensenville. Though he was not in the U.S. that long, his impact was profound.

After news of his tragic death spread, dozens of fellow Marine families reached out to the Daily Herald or left heartfelt messages on military blogs inquiring whether a funeral with military honors will be held in here. So far, nothing has been planned. The American Red Cross also is getting involved.

Thousands of miles away, in Poland, Dorota Pietrek asked that those in the country her son adopted as his own remember him, too, as one of their own.

"Thank you for keeping him in your hearts and your minds," she wrote.

Ellie

thedrifter
06-20-08, 06:31 AM
Fallen Marine writes to family
Published: 6/19/2008 8:54 AM

Editor's note: The following are excerpts from undated correspondence Marine Dawid Pietrek sent to his mother and younger sister back in his native Police, Poland. Pietrek, who lived briefly in Bensenville and was a caregiver for an Elmhurst family, was killed Saturday by a roadside bomb in Afghanistan, where the Polish immigrant served with the hope of becoming a U.S. citizen.

My beloved girls:

I've been here two weeks in Afghanistan. It's hot over here, about 45 degrees Celsius (113 degrees Fahrenheit). For the time being, I'm stationed in Kandahar. Our first week here, our base was attacked by rocket fire. No one was hurt. Our biggest threat in Afghanistan are (land) mines and roadside bombs. Beyond that, the people of Afghanistan love us and say we are doing a good job.

They are terrified of the Taliban … We are helping and protecting these people and providing them with schooling and medicine.

I'm well and I'm feeling good. I love you both so much. You are the most important things to me.

If something should happen to me remember - this was my decision. We're defending people here and fighting terrorists. (But, nothing will happen to me because I'm watching over myself).

Please write back soon and tell me what you've been up to. Love you both and miss you - Dawid.

Ellie