tcatalogne
05-05-08, 10:39 PM
I'll try to keep this short.
My Father, Lt. Col. Paul "Chips" Catalogne died in October, 2005. As many Marines do, my Father and I had a tough relationship at times.
Unfortunatley, my step-mother had my Father cremated and buried in her family area cemetary. That's the last place my Father wanted to be, that I know. My whole life, he made it clear he was going to Arlington.
They have denied me having anything there at all for him unless I can produce his ashes. Which I can't. My Brother and I and his 3 Grandchildren are his only family.
Is there anywhere we can memorialize him in a proper way? If anyone reading this knew my Father you know he is very deserving of this.
To be tucked away in a country side graveyard is not what he would have wanted and certainly not what we want.
Whether his ashes are there or not, eventually it's irrelevant isn't it. His true spirit was with the Marine Corps. He truly loved who he was when he was a Marine. He was a better Marine than he was a Father or Husband and one of the things that made him great was the fact that he was the first to admit that.
I miss him everyday and after 2 and 1/2 years still feel unsettled that there isn't something more for him.
Is there anything I can do. Anywhere that his spirit can be laid to rest in the proper way? Thank you for any advice.
My Father, Lt. Col. Paul "Chips" Catalogne died in October, 2005. As many Marines do, my Father and I had a tough relationship at times.
Unfortunatley, my step-mother had my Father cremated and buried in her family area cemetary. That's the last place my Father wanted to be, that I know. My whole life, he made it clear he was going to Arlington.
They have denied me having anything there at all for him unless I can produce his ashes. Which I can't. My Brother and I and his 3 Grandchildren are his only family.
Is there anywhere we can memorialize him in a proper way? If anyone reading this knew my Father you know he is very deserving of this.
To be tucked away in a country side graveyard is not what he would have wanted and certainly not what we want.
Whether his ashes are there or not, eventually it's irrelevant isn't it. His true spirit was with the Marine Corps. He truly loved who he was when he was a Marine. He was a better Marine than he was a Father or Husband and one of the things that made him great was the fact that he was the first to admit that.
I miss him everyday and after 2 and 1/2 years still feel unsettled that there isn't something more for him.
Is there anything I can do. Anywhere that his spirit can be laid to rest in the proper way? Thank you for any advice.