ErisAngelus
04-22-08, 05:31 PM
My boyfriend has been talking about joining the military for a while. This week he made the choice to do so and signed up. He will be shipped out in July I think for boot camp. We are both collage students, I have about three years left.
Today he asked me to merry him, no rush or anything, he just want me to he engaged to him with the hope of being married in the next few years.I dont really know much about the Marines, except that they are the best at what they do.
I understand that the go to boot camp for 13 weeks, then have some kind of leave, then go to job school. After that they get their jobs. Is it possible to get Married after that? Or is it better to wait untill he is done with his four years.
I want to finish school, but how would I do that and follow him around. I guess I just need to hear from others to remind myself that it is ok. My home, farm, and horses are all here where I live... is it selfish to look at all this and not be able to see how to jus leave it all.
I am a working person, I cant live doing nothing and I dont want kids. There are working Marine wives right? Or should we just wait...
Today he asked me to merry him, no rush or anything, he just want me to he engaged to him with the hope of being married in the next few years.I dont really know much about the Marines, except that they are the best at what they do.
I understand that the go to boot camp for 13 weeks, then have some kind of leave, then go to job school. After that they get their jobs. Is it possible to get Married after that? Or is it better to wait untill he is done with his four years.
I want to finish school, but how would I do that and follow him around. I guess I just need to hear from others to remind myself that it is ok. My home, farm, and horses are all here where I live... is it selfish to look at all this and not be able to see how to jus leave it all.
I am a working person, I cant live doing nothing and I dont want kids. There are working Marine wives right? Or should we just wait...