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HONOR, COURAGE, COMMITMENT…Is the change really for life…when it comes to the core values?
By Robert Adelhelm | Published  04/18/2006 | Rants & Raves | Rating:
Robert Adelhelm
Bob was born and educated in New Jersey. He graduated from William Patterson College in Wayne, New Jersey with a B.S. Degree in Criminal Justice and was commissioned as a 2nd Lieutenant in the Marines in 1973. He spent 22 years on active duty.

His service included assignments in various command, staff and instructor billets with 8th Marines, 4th Marines, 2d Reconnaissance Battalion, Blount Island Command, The Basic School (TBS) Quantico MCB, Amphibious Reconnaissance School (ARS) NAB Coronado, NROTC University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill / North Carolina State University and he was an Aide-de-Camp for the Assistant Division Commander of the 3d Marine Division. He was with 2nd Battalion 8th Marines during operations in Beirut, Lebanon. Bob retired with the rank of LtCol in 1995. His MOSs include 0302, 0402, 9953 and 9960. He the recipient of the Meritorious Service Medal with three Stars, Navy Achievement Medal, Marine Expeditionary Medal and the Combat Action Ribbon.

He is the founder and past president of the Jacksonville Semper Fidelis Society. Life member of the VFW, a member of the American Legion and Marine Corps League and is a Past Chairmen of the NE Florida Veterans Council. He remains actively involved in assisting veterans.  

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HONOR, COURAGE, COMMITMENT

Are these values just another PR marketing tool being used for recruiting or are they values we honestly believe in and abide by… for life?   


I remember when there was a big push in the early 90’s to get these Core Values out to all Marines and ensure they all understand them.  Instructors were assigned at all commands to present the Core Values and explain what they meant to us as Marines.  We were very successful in doing this and subsequently have made them a major part of everything seen and “done” by Marines from basic training to career level assignments.  But do we actually practice what we preach; do all measure up to this standard…is the change really for life?  


Honor

Honor guides Marines to exemplify the ultimate in ethical and moral behavior; to never lie cheat or steal; to abide by an uncompromising code of integrity; respect human dignity; and respect others. The quality of maturity, dedication, trust and dependability commit Marines to act responsibly; to be accountable for their actions; to fulfill their obligations; and to hold others accountable for their actions.

Courage
Courage is the mental, moral and physical strength ingrained in Marines. It carries them through the challenges of combat and helps them overcome fear. It is the inner strength that enables a Marine to do what is right; to adhere to a higher standard of personal conduct; and to make tough decisions under stress and pressure.

Commitment
Commitment is the spirit of determination and dedication found in Marines. It leads to the highest order of discipline for individuals and units. It is the ingredient that enables 24-hour a day dedication to Corps and country. It inspires the unrelenting determination to achieve a standard of excellence in every endeavor.

There is no question that these values have been, in some form or another, what have made the Marine Corps what it is in the eyes of the American public. The period of 1938 to1953 in Marine Corps History epitomize these values.  When Americans think of Marines, it is hard not to visualize the raising of the flag at  Iwo Jima  or the walk out of the Chosin.  Being a Marine meant you were different and Marines proved it.  It is no different today just look at  Iraq  Afghanistan.  Becoming a Marine sets you apart and really does affect you for life.  We are seen by many as what an honorable, courageous and committed individual is.  Our Core Values are the bedrock of what being a Marine is all about and what helps make us different.  So, why than do some take such a narrow view of them, why don’t we strictly enforce them without the exceptions?  Or are they just a marketing tool with no real intent and purpose other than taking a back seat to expedience?  It sure does seem that way sometimes.


In the interest of stimulating some thought on the subject, let me take some aspects of each of the values and attempt to explain.  Maybe I am being too idealistic to think these values can be followed exactly as stated without the exceptions.  But it is hard for me to accept that Marines can’t be held to a higher standard; after all, we already proved we can accomplish what some considered the impossible, so why not when it comes to living up to our Core Values and do it for life. Let me use the following examples from each of the values as defined and taught to Marines and try to provoke your interest:  


Under HONOR…hold others accountable for their actions.


Under COURAGE…Moral Courage is moral strength, the will to heed the inner voice of conscience, the will to do what is right regardless of the conduct of others.


Under COMMITMENT…. It inspires the unrelenting determination to achieve a standard of excellence in every endeavor. 


As Marines, we have all taken an oath to protect and defend the constitution against all enemies so help us God.  Remember?  Well, here than is the dilemma.  If the same Marine who took that oath before God now has reneged on his vows of marriage, which are also taken before God, why or how can he or she be trusted to abide by the oath of a Marine to defend the constitution?  Do we not consider vows/commitment to another or is this an “exception” and acceptable?  What is the meaning of commitment to those that have been married 3, 4 and even 5 times?   Do we have Marines and Marines in leadership positions that fall into this category?  Is this a good example of a person that understands the value of commitment?  Commitment means sacrifice; sacrifice that comes in many forms.  Should we tolerate this exception?  Is this value only meant for selective implementation within an organizational framework and ignored on a personal level?  If so, what are the exceptions to how and when to demonstrate a sense of commitment?  In both situations, they were, in most cases, sworn before God, but not abiding by ones vows 1, 2, 3 or whatever number of times still mean you have a sense of the value of commitment?  Can you be expected to trust someone under a life and death situation or any situation that has a selective sense of commitment?  Is this too old fashion?  Too hard?  Too idealistic?  Is this one of those, it depends on what the meaning of what IS, IS?  I know it touches a sore subject for some, but an oath or vow before God should be viewed the same…a commitment!  Exceptions and acceptable?      


Moral Courage we have been taught, at times, is more difficult than physical courage. It is the foundation of character; the ability to stick up for what you feel is right, regardless of the conduct of others and the consequences.  But there are too many cases where individuals attempting to demonstrate this value have become victims and/or made out to be rogues/troublemakers, especially when the complaint is against a person of authority or influence.  It seems that moral courage and adhering to one’s own principles is getting to be more and more difficult in today’s society; those that adhere to this value are usually left to fend for themselves without the support or commitment from others.  Others that stand on the side lines and just watch even though they know what is happening is wrong.  This seems to be the norm in today’s society and it makes it more and more difficult for Marines with Core Values when transitioning to the private sector.  In the eyes of many we are the epitome of the highest standards and these values.  Therefore, some are going to shy away from Marines, because it may force them to adhere to the same values or high standards or suffer the consequences.  The lack of ethics and values has become more and more acceptable in many areas of society.  Ethics and doing what is right has all but disappeared and this has carried over to some areas of the military and government.   There are just too many situations where individuals demonstrating moral courage, abiding by or demonstrating a sense of commitment to values and principles become victims and eventually are penalized or denied opportunities.  What’s the alternative for those that try to stay true to their Core Values and try to remain ethical?  Go with the flow or become the preverbal salmon swimming against the stream who suffers for being different?  Do we allow exceptions to this value to survive?  One would think that what is right is right and having the sense of commitment to values and principles shouldn’t mean you have to deal with a plethora of exceptions used by individuals with other than honorable intentions to survive in any environment.  Should we Marines have to set aside our values and principles in the interest of discretion or should we be steadfast when it comes to them no matter what with no exceptions…Is the change for life?  Too idealistic?  Too hard?   


The last item, under Honor, is holding others accountable for their actions.  Unfortunately, both in and out of the Corps, this depends on whom.  We are all created equal, but let’s face it; there are those that are more equal then others.  Again, maybe I’m being too idealistic to think this can be applied fairly and evenly to all.  But, if we are going use it as a part of one of our core values, we need to make sure it is fairly, evenly and justly applied to ALL.  NO EXCEPTIONS!  This may be easier to do in the military than in the civilian sector, but it has also been abused there many times and recently.  Sometimes rank has its privileges and there are situations where some have gotten away with what others get punished to the letter of the law.  Exceptions?  When it comes to accountability and holding individual’s accountable, it seems to be getting increasingly more difficult.  It appears that power, influence and money have become key factors that allow many to do whatever and whenever they want regardless of values or the law.  What do we do as Marines with our higher standards and sense of values when dealing with situations like these?  Accept them?  Is the change for life?  Too hard?      


Maybe these values are just there to be movable “guide” lines deluded with exceptions.  Maybe they are just “goals” we hope to achieve or maybe they really are nothing more than just a marketing tool, empty phases and meaningless clichés on posters.  For some of us that served in the Marines or with Marines know what being a Marine is all about; these Core Values are what we are, what we stand for, who we are as individuals and why we opted to become Marines and accept the calling.  Yes, it is hard to live by this set of Values like these, but who ever said being a Marine was easy.  I believe these values can be applied in everything we do as Marines, but it takes a high degree of sacrifice and, a willing to remain a beacon of what we stand for as Marines by not accepting any exceptions or an easy way out.  To do anything less, would only make those values nothing more than meaningless and empty phases that adorn posters. 


We have those amongst us that have become too “Semper Me” and have forgot the true meaning of Semper Fi and what being a Marine is all about ALL THE TIME and staying true to the values of HONOR, COURAGE and COMMITMENT.  Values that long before the Corps decided to institutional helped make the Marine Corps what it is and attracted exceptional individuals to our ranks.  If the change is for life and Once a Marine, Always a Marine is truly a calling, Semper Fi should always prevail and these values should remain with us forever. There should be no tolerance or room for those who fail to abide by them.  This is what makes us different as MARINES.  Real and honest understanding of these values, strict adherence to them by all at all levels in the Marine Corps and amongst all Marines; they are the bedrock of our character as Marines and they do not need to be compromised with exceptions.  No exceptions when it comes to the Core Values; we need to be and continue to stay true to the fact and the belief that the only EXCEPTION in today’s society is a Marine with unwavering CORE VALUES.    


For those of us that are now amongst civilians, this is a challenge.  The only way we are going to survive with our values intact and continue make a difference in are communities is to stick together and strictly adhere to and enforce these values in the same manner expected of us when we wore a uniform.  We need to epitomize these values individually and collectively in all that we do, how we do it and NOT tolerate those that fail to adhere to them.  In a society that has lost the meaning of ethics at every level, we need to be beacons and guardians of these values for our brother and sister Marines departing the Corps, so they can set their sights on those who still work with, protect and practice a sense of values.  They need to know that these values really matter and they really are for life with NO EXCEPTIONS.   


The core values can continue to guide us in becoming the point of the spear in our civilian communities in regard to ethics, standards and values just as Marines have been the point of the spear for the armed forces throughout history because of their character, a CHARACTER based on HONOR, COURAGE and COMMITMENT.  But the change really needs to be for life or these values become nothing more than empty phases and meaningless clichés that adorn posters.  We need to send the message that First to Fight and Guarded by a US Marine still is powerful!


Sound off!  What do you think…Is the change for life…Too idealistic to think we can be true to the Core Values?


“If everyone could be a Marine, It wouldn’t be the Marines”

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  • Comment #1 (Posted by Charlie McKinney)
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    This article is outstanding and very timely. Marine Corps values need to be discussed among Marines on a continuing basis whenever possible, even in the main media. I only wish that every Marine active duty, retired, veteran, etc. would read it throughly, understand it and live it. It is the code that I live by and all Marines should be living by whether in the Corps now or in civilian life. Congratulations to Robert Adelhelm, keep up the good work & thank you.

    Semper Fi, Charlie

    Charles M. McKinney
    President & CEO
    Marine Embassy Guard Association
    43990 Needmore Court
    Ashburn, Virginia 20147
    7032-729-1529
     
  • Comment #2 (Posted by Theodore J Mullins)
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    The Marine Corps is the greatest fraternity that has ever existed. Once a Marine always a Marine! God - Country - Family - SEMPER FI!
     
  • Comment #3 (Posted by Gene Ciliberti)
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    Bob, great article. It has lasted me for life. Those core values you speak of are needed by every person who hopes to be a good citizen.
    Every thing I learned in the USMC has helped me make a successful career, a great marriage, be a good dad and have a wonderful life. I dedicated my book to the USMC for all of those reasons. Take a peek at:
    www.geocities.com/gciliberti/index.html
     
  • Comment #4 (Posted by MICHAEL D LELI)
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    I WAS IN THE MARINES FROM 68 TO 70. WENT A CROSS THE POND.I AM NOT SORRY ONE SINGLE BIT. WERE THE BEST. GOD BLESS YOU ALL
     
  • Comment #5 (Posted by J D Stewart)
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    Being in the Marime Corps Has made me a better man in every way.I was pretty Wild when I first got out But finally setled down.Got Married while in the Corps. Have been Married for 48 Year's. Have a Great Wife and 4 Children, 14 Grand Children and 5 Great Grand Children.Am Disabled but can Still Play like a Kid When They come over.Have Been Blessed in Many Way's and I owe it all to What I learned in the Corps. SEMPER FI To all and God Bless.
     
  • Comment #6 (Posted by Mark Lurtsema)
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    The life lessons I learned as a Marine have helped me be successful throughout my entire life. But, since the day I was born as a Marine, there has been no greater honor, and no other that I would rather be. We few, we happy few, we band of brothers. Semper Fi.
     
  • Comment #7 (Posted by William Bloomfield, Jr.)
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    The article is truly excellent, and should be required reading by not only all Marines, but all citizens and immigrants who wish to become citizens. You eloquently wrote of the way that I have tried to both live my life and raise my children to live theirs. Thank you for your outstanding work, and keep it up.

    Semper Fi, Brother

    William Bloomfield, Jr.
    GySgt, USMC, Retired
    1958-1980
    Desoto, Texas
     
  • Comment #8 (Posted by Ex-Sgt. Rick Rank)
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    Great article! During my time in the Corps, I realized that alot of those around me were forced into service by courts for breaking the law. The idea was that "the Marine Corps will straighten him out". I didn't see the pride in them that I had developed. The good news is that many many more of my fellow Marines, and those I meet today, had in fact have Honor, Courage and Committment inbedded into their character and carry those virtues forward to this day in their civilian lives. For those, the slogan "once a Marine, always a Marine" rings true. I once heard that one-third of the Fortune 500 Companies are run by former Marines. Honor, Courage and Commitment are virtues held by Leaders. And Leadership is what the Marine Corps is all about. Thanks for your thoughts and service Lt. Col. Adelhelm!

    Semper Fi,
    Former Sgt. Rick Rank
    President and CEO
    COMPA Food Bank Ministry
    P.O. Box 16505
    Denver, CO 80216
     
  • Comment #9 (Posted by Bob Teal)
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    Bob,you make a lot of good points. It takes a strong man or woman to adhere strictly to our core values. Being a Marine, with Marines isn't as hard as being around civilians that have never even heard of the values we were taught as recruits. Thanks for the reminder we have to go that extra mile because we are Marines. Bob Teal, MGySgt USMC, (Ret.)
     
  • Comment #10 (Posted by jerry Dudgeon)
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    I served in the Marines from April 18 1967 till May 28th 1970. I went too vietnam right after my basic training, and i would'nt be the man i am today if it hadn't Joined the Corp. Semper Fi!
     
  • Comment #11 (Posted by Daniel P.Brennan)
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    As A Drill Instructor in Parris Island,S.C. we instilled moral values, Honor & Commitment & love of Corps. In civilian life, I worked for an Engineering Company,my supervisor was a retired Navy Comander who sent me on much more of my share of diffucult jobs, when I asked him why?, his answer was, "Because you are the Only Marine I Have, & I don't worry about it, I give it to you & forget about it". I have used my core values every day of my life, regardless of how diffucult it is,
    Semper Fi,
    Dan Brennan
     
  • Comment #12 (Posted by Jim Wood)
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    Bob,
    Doesn't sound like you've changed a bit (a good thing) since you were at UNC-CH as the M.O.I. It's very good to see a career/retired marine continuing to "walk the walk" after leaving active duty.
    Semper Fidelis,
    Jim Wood
     
  • Comment #13 (Posted by Will Perdue)
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    Great article. The Honor, Courage, Commetment, and RESPECT taught by the Marines is defenitely for life. I was inducted, yes, inducted into the Marines in 1966, and because of what other Marines who served it WWII and Korea told me I made it thru Basic in what I thought was a breeze. Not because it was easy but because I decided I wanted to be one of The Few, The Proud. After I was discharged I found those values following me in my everyday life. The last 40 years have been great to me because of what I learned in the Corps.

    Will Perdue, Sgt. USMC 1966-1968
    RVN 1966, 1967
    Marine - For Life
     
  • Comment #14 (Posted by CWO4 Ray R. Fairman USMCR (Ret.))
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    God, Country and Corps are the first three words I memorized when I first saw MCRD back in "63. It took my Marine Corps a few years and me a few tears before I really learned the meaning of leadership. Once I learned, I never forgot. At the 10 year mark back in '73 I went USMCR as a S/Sgt. and turned to Law Enforcement as a full time income source and used the same core values and leadership I learned in the USMC to build a 38 Year career as a peace officer.
    Somewhere along the AD & Reserve 33 years I heard an old Arabian toast that says "When you came into the world, you cried and the world rejoiced. live your life so that when you die, the world will cry and you will rejoice."
    If you have the courage to stand firm and live your lives by the principles of this article and can keep from applying adjectives to modify the word "correct" then the term situational ethics will never cause you to stumble along life's highway.
    Captain (Chaplain) Ray R Fairman
    Winterville Police Department
    Winterville GA
    USMC Pvt to S/Sgt 1963-1973
    USMCR (Ret.) Gy/Sgt to CWO4 1973-1996
     
  • Comment #15 (Posted by Carl Edmunds)
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    First of all, I am not a Marine. I have two sons that are Marines. I was in the Navy. Since we are talking about Honor, Corage and Commitment, you won't hold that against me.

    These are values that can and should be held as principles in everyday life. I have made the commitment to do so for years, and I know it can be done. You are right, it is not easy. Especially in the world we live in today. But it is people who "abide" in these values, in the strictest sense of the word, that will be the leaders in this same world. Because they exemplify this in thought and in deed, they will be able to recognize problems (situational awareness) and determine the correct course of action to take to remedy the situation. I have found this true over the years in both my personal and professional life.

    Keep pressing for the highest calling. God will bless those efforts.
     
  • Comment #16 (Posted by Arthur Waller)
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    I was on recruiting duty when the Corps came out with the "Honor, Courage, Commitment" campaign. The new recruits were going to learn what these values meant to every Marine. At the end of recruit training they were issued these cards with the core values on them to remember. I was discharged from the Marines in 1998 but I still carry that card in my wallet today. As a Marine, I believe we should continue to practice these values in our every day lives. It's what sets us apart from the other services.
     
  • Comment #17 (Posted by terryshafter)
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    Sir your article was great!! I wish some former Marines I know would read it and adhere to it. I’m a former Marine 79-85. I was in Iraq, 15 mos. with the G.A. natl.guard. I was proud to serve my country. Many of my guard members have know discipline. I guess I can be too hard. I look at it this way, I wouldn’t have a soldier or marine do something that I wouldn’t do. The Marine Corp is in my heart. My soldiers see it. I don’t put them down. I don’t throw the Corp. In their faces. I try to help them as much as possible. I’m short now about 7 months now. I’m gonna get out. See people don’t realize our values etc.im too much of a marine to stay. One has to realize when its tie to go. Keep the good articles coming I enjoy them... Semper Fi!!
     
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